Elena Martín, divorce planner: "85% of breakups are initiated by women. If the house is fine and their children are taken care of, men are content with the life they have"

Elena Martín, a family lawyer and divorcee, founded Divorce Planner to assist individuals in navigating divorce. Her approach, the Pantera Method, emphasizes personal responsibility and emotional detachment from partners. Martín encourages clients to regain control over their lives and avoid victimhood. She highlights the importance of planning for divorce, likening it to other life changes. Many women seek her help due to feelings of neglect in their relationships. Martín advocates for transforming family bonds rather than breaking them, emphasizing that children should learn healthy relationship dynamics. She also addresses custody and financial concerns, aiming to empower women economically to reduce dependency on ex-partners. Martín notes that most divorces are initiated by women, who often have already processed their feelings before deciding to separate.