"I am cheating on my partner with a married man, should I gradually make a choice?": Rika Ponnet answers Anneke's question

Anneke, 45, is happily married but has been in a secret sexual relationship with a married man for four years. She feels she can separate the two relationships but questions whether she should continue this freedom or focus on her marriage. Relationship expert Rika Ponnet advises that while compartmentalization is possible, it can lead to emotional complications and risks. If discovered, Anneke could lose her marriage and family stability. Rika emphasizes the importance of considering the impact on her children and the potential consequences of her actions.