Died before asking for forgiveness – how do we mourn the parent who hurt us?

Not everyone experiences a childhood they deserve, with attentive parents who provide security and unconditional love. Confronting a troubled past can be challenging, especially if parents are still alive, as they may not acknowledge their responsibilities or apologize. The death of a parent before reconciliation can leave unresolved grievances. This raises questions about the emotions that arise upon their passing, such as lingering anger or unexpected relief, and whether forgiveness is necessary simply because they have died.