What is a "good" orgasm?

The article discusses the perception of sex from a female perspective, contrasting it with a popular male viewpoint that trivializes bad sexual experiences. It highlights the negative aspects of sex for women, including coercive orgasms and the emotional pressure surrounding them, as researched by psychologist Sara Chadwick. The piece emphasizes that for women, bad sex can be painful and degrading, challenging the notion that all sexual experiences are inherently enjoyable.