O <em>ghosting</em>, essa velha tradição nacional

The article explores the Portuguese phenomenon of ghosting, tracing its historical roots and cultural implications. It highlights how the Portuguese have developed a rich vocabulary for unfulfilled promises and the tendency to avoid direct refusals. The author reflects on personal experiences of waiting for responses in both personal and professional contexts, noting the discomfort of seeking clarity. Despite the sociable nature of the Portuguese, there seems to be a reluctance to commit to decisions, leading to prolonged uncertainty for those left waiting. The piece concludes with a humorous acknowledgment of the enduring hope for responses, likening it to the historical wait for King Sebastian's return.